I’m odd.

I want to be close to other people,

and can sometimes allow myself to be.

I also want to be alone,

and as soon as somebody seems to want to spend time with me,

I revolt.

Why do I do this?

The people that I trusted the most betrayed me,

Stabbed me in the back,

Blindsided me.

Now, I find it hard to let people become close to me.

I trust no one.

I know there are good people out there, but I am still in survival mode.

I still feel the need to protect myself from others.

This is the lasting effects of childhood trauma. 

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  1. Lorri

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    Yep, you were in my head when you wrote that, surely!! The only difference with me being that I don’t run away if anyone tries to get close because I’ve made sure to keep anyone from knowing me enough to even want to get close…and as I sit in my self-made jail of loneliness I can only blame myself as I have chosen the road I currently travel on…needing to change but feeling hopelessly stuck it’s insane!!

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